When D-Day arrived it could not have been closer to the WAW Syndrome that Michelle wrote about. Her big complaint is that we were not connected emotionally. While I was speaking to her the other day she asked me who I had been talking to. I told her I was educating myself on how to make myself a better partner. I shared a few things with her and while I was with her over the weekend she caught her Italian way of conversing come up a few times and she apologized to me. I asked her why and she said she wanted to learn to speak nicer to me. I also shared with her how we became what she called emotionally disconnected. I quoted WAW Syndromes points about complaining and the man seeing it as nagging so I must have withdrawn. I told her that in the last month and a half I thought we were great but yet she had already planned an escape to her old home that we had rented out. She purchased some furnishings from the renters who were having a garage sale without my knowledge. So when she told me she was leaving she pretty much had a completely furnished home ready and waiting for her. I took a weeks vacation to help her move and we stayed at our home and in our bed until the move was complete. We are still in a physical relationship as well.
