Caeman: Just looking in. Have been reading the boards for a month or two (so am a NEWB!) and your situation is one of the harder ones. But there is hope. Read back through DR with a solution orientation and a beginners mind.
Set microgoals GAL Become the best "You" there is. Validate but don't agree with everything she says just to keep the peace Detach
I would tell her a one-hour truck rental at Home Depot goes for 19.99. :-)
Last edited by Cristy; 09/03/1409:17 PM.
Me: 43 XW: 43 T15 M14 D21, SS15, S11, D8 BD: 8/6 EA / possible PA discovered 9/29 D final 10/20