Caeman: Just looking in. Have been reading the boards for a month or two (so am a NEWB!) and your situation is one of the harder ones. But there is hope. Read back through DR with a solution orientation and a beginners mind.

Set microgoals
GAL
Become the best "You" there is.
Validate but don't agree with everything she says just to keep the peace
Detach

I would tell her a one-hour truck rental at Home Depot goes for 19.99. :-)

Last edited by Cristy; 09/03/14 09:17 PM.

Me: 43 XW: 43
T15 M14
D21, SS15, S11, D8
BD: 8/6
EA / possible PA discovered 9/29
D final 10/20