Thank you very much, T. It's embarrassing to hear that I have good advice for other posters when I feel like I just went on a two-day tantrum.
My theme for the month is that life is bigger than we expect and that it pretty much always turns out ok if you just try to be the best person you can be. I'm trying to live with a ten-years-out perspective. It's clearly going to take some practice.
Thank you so much for your support. I can't believe the way your H turned around. I hope your older son is adjusting to everything ok. He sounded like he had a tough go of things for a while.
Me42, H40 D12, S8, S7 A revealed: 7/13 Sep 4/14; Agreed to D 1/15