My H is not someone I would be excited to date right now. Our lunch last week was nice (probably impacted by the baggage I/we brought to it) but not as fun as an outing to Chik-Fil-A with my SAHD friend. It should be AT LEAST that fun to warrant a second date. Our lunch on Monday would have ruled him out for a second date.
Maybell, this probably isn't worded the way I mean it, but I think you'd be hard pressed to find anyone on here that would find their WAS fun and exciting enough to warrant a second date unless the WAS was willing to put in equal work. I just don't know that it's apples to apples if you're comparing your H to a new person. I've gone on a couple 'dates' with my WAW and they're more awkward and strange right now than fun and exciting. So I think your feelings are normal at this stage. Does that make sense??
