My W actually suggested an open marriage back when I found out about the affair . Open marriage LOL like that would work . I said absolutely not for many reasons , one being the case of what im dealing with now . And that is developing deep feelings for someone else . I thought it was absurd and I think she believed it could work now she must be able to see why I was against it .


Me 45 W 45
Son 16 Son 14
Married 23 together 27
W threatened sep several times
W still at home
A discovered Mar 17 2014
A ended DEC 2 ( skeptical )