This outline of the stages really helped me understand what was going on with my H, even though his MLC was different in many different ways. It helped me to have some kind of relatable timeline. As this content is available elsewhere, I felt it was important to repost here for others to be able to find easier, because it was so incredibly helpful to me. It was this exactly post that came up in a Google search for me when I was searching for what was going on with my H. If not for this original post, I would have never joined the DB forums.

Last edited by Cristy; 09/04/14 06:57 PM.

M38,H39
M:16Y
BD:8/12
OWDB:11/12
S:11/12-5/13
"Temp" home:6/13
OW dropped:9/13
"I love you":12/13
H ring on:2/14
Depression back:5/15
"I'm done:" 7/15
H moved out: 3/16
H moved back: 12/16
Working on us: 3/17