Apparently, we both booked something for this coming weekend and neither of us are budging. We're essentially double-booked with nobody to watch the kids.
I made a stink about it, noting that she's been spending a day every weekend with the OM since BD, while I play stay-at-home-dad with the kids.
It eventually led to a conversation about what we were doing on that day (she didn't tell me before). She initially refused to tell me because she said she wanted to "spare my feelings".
I told her that there is nothing she can say to me at this point that would be worse than what she's already done to me.
OOPS!
She chuckled at that, and didn't reply.
M: 15 years BD: 6/25/14 EA/PA: starts 5/14/14 11/30/14 - A ends 5/15/15 - D is finalized. 11/28/15 - Start of new LTR with a wonderful woman (and still going strong)!