I see your point MrBond and agree 100%,

I was more or less thinking out loud a thought that occurred to me. Never ever intended on doing it. I know it would only lead to more frustration.

SS, I tend to be like you in the respect that I would rather talk about things but my W is like your H. This process of DBing along with IMC has taught me to have a lot of patience and that is a complete 180 for me according to my W. She hasn't said she noticed I have more patience she just used to complain before the S that I was the most impatient person she knew.

Thanks for commenting!!

Me 47/W 34
T 16 M 13
No kids
BD 6/2013
W asked that I move out 6/2013
I moved back and W is upset with this 12/2013
separate beds not much talking
Served D Complaint 5/2014
W moved out 9/27/2014