lol Thats too crazy . Us too started having a few problems in the fall . She started the affair in december last year . I found out about OM in march also and have been trying to deal with it since . But in my case she is still seeing him and wants to leave to be with him . It kills me when I have to say that . I was un fortunate in being that the OM s children are grown and it was only him and his wife . So he parted with her . Now im sure he is pressuring her to leave . The only thing keeping her home is that she doesnt want the kids to find out the truth . She wants me to just say mom and dad grew apart . Which is a lie . That the guy she is living with is a good guy and its noot his fault . Which is a lie . That she hasnt been seeing him all this time . Which is a lie . I refused to keep the secret and I believe this is why shes been treating me so badly
Me 45 W 45 Son 16 Son 14 Married 23 together 27 W threatened sep several times W still at home A discovered Mar 17 2014 A ended DEC 2 ( skeptical )
