Dawgy, I started dropping weight too after BD and not in a healthy way. What helped me was making sure to plan outings with friends around meals. Even though I still had no appetite at times, it helped force me to eat at least a little. Now I tend to have such a good time with my friends, it helps me take my mind off my D, my appetite has returned, and my weight has stabilized. Good luck.
Me: 35, H: 37, no kids Together since 2002, Married since 2007 IDKIILY: 2/2013 MC: 5/2013-6/2014 H stated he was REALLY done: 4/2014 I moved out 7/6/14 H filed end of 8/2014 but still hasn't served me