Lisa, my coach is telling me to go ahead and date (meaning casual dates, not a new relationship), but only because my H is so checked out. She said that if he were showing more signs of confusion/waffling, then she'd recommend not dating because it can complicate things. But you can decide based on your own situation. Hang in there!


Me: 35, H: 37, no kids
Together since 2002, Married since 2007
IDKIILY: 2/2013
MC: 5/2013-6/2014
H stated he was REALLY done: 4/2014
I moved out 7/6/14
H filed end of 8/2014 but still hasn't served me