RockJC - keeping it real in 2014. Thanks for that. My D is looming 10/20 and I need to remember to do what works - and the only thing that is working right now is building pleasant memories and not engaging in conflict. So, divorce it is. Doesn't mean I'm quitting DB'g - just means she is pursuing a course of action I don't agree with and can't stop.
Me: 43 XW: 43 T15 M14 D21, SS15, S11, D8 BD: 8/6 EA / possible PA discovered 9/29 D final 10/20