Ugh, I'm so sorry, Ats. That stinks to have the mental image now. Remember, ow is just a bandaid, nothing more. She does not hold a candle to you, and she never will. His poor decisions, especially those that hurt the kids, will do him no favors should this D go through.
Hang in there, and do the best you can to turn away from the train wreck of a mess they both are. Let it die a natural death. Don't give any attention to it whatsoever. This was the one lesson I was able to learn early on, and it served me well.
