I will have to check out Codependent No More. Thanks for the tip!
Had to set a hard boundary last night based on emails that H sends me about open or plural relationships. Seriously....He claims that he just wanted me to understand the psychology of it. I told him that it is like pouring salt into a deep wound.
He tossed and turned all night (me, too). This morning we went back to our regularly scheduled behavior of "as if."
