I accept that we have both contributed to this, so it may be unfair to just put a timeline on the A. I think there was an accumulation of things throughout the last 20 years.
Things started getting a little rough in September/october of last year - though just some bumps (IMO) - I wasn't handling her new career as well as I should have. We had a big breakdown at the end of january - I "mishandled" a suspicion that I had and it completely changed her. I suspected OM with some proof mid march. I told her that I knew about OM at the end of march - she didn't deny it (while on vacation with her and the kids).
It's a short time compared to many here, but it seems like an eternity to me - I'm sure everyone feels this way though
Me-45 W-44 S21, S18, D15 T-27, M-21 BD Jan 2014 PA revealed March 2014 In-house separation - April 2015 I filed - Aug 2015 She moved out Oct 2015
