I think I would have a problem with her not acknowledging that it was hurtful to you. You had an expectation and she didn't abide by that. Have you specifically spelled out how you feel about what she did?
Thanks Heart- she knows how I feel about it, but hasn't really acknowledged the hurt or that it was wrong (in her mind maybe it wasn't). I have Starsky's same 'I've-gotta-be-right' issues, so I'm fine with waiting until MC to address. I'm hoping that's what she's waiting for too.
