I'm here to offer a cyber hug. This has just got to be HARD. No way around it. I like the idea of hypnosis. Have you ever done any release techniques? I used them when my life was completely over the top with stress 2 years ago. They certainly helped me get over my headaches. Especially when all the turmoil was out of my control but affected ME.
I hate to point out the obvious, but since Wii pointed it out to me last summer when I was not communicating very well with my D20, I'll return the favor. Because it worked. It's time to use your DB techniques with your son. Go back and read the threads on detaching, work on what's yours and leave the rest of it up to him. (Damn, that sounds easy, doesn't it??)
I think that once you get back in the habit again, you'll find that some of the stress dissipates. Because it's not you who is unwed, pregnant and without a plan. I completely understand if you think it's worse that it's not you. I'd be thinking that if it were D20. BUT, part of letting go is... letting go. You're a really good mom.
My former boss used to ask me, "What do you want it to look like one year from now?" I'd tell him and he'd say, "then go make it happen!" Assume the baby will be here and visualize what you want your R to be with everyone involved. I think sometimes that takes the fear out of the middle.
Hugs,
Bets
"There are only 2 ways to live your life. One is as though nothing is a miracle. The other is as though everything is a miracle."
Because it worked. It's time to use your DB techniques with your son. Go back and read the threads on detaching, work on what's yours and leave the rest of it up to him. (Damn, that sounds easy, doesn't it??)
I completely understand if you think it's worse that it's not you. I'd be thinking that if it were D20. BUT, part of letting go is... letting go. You're a really good mom.
