This must be the day for agreement, because I echo what Job and Georgia said. It seems as though she wants to hold the cards to clearly define your friendship, and chastises you for seeing things differently. That's not the kind of friend I'd want going forward.
I'd probably hand you another cup of coffee and say that you have closure on this R, you've made all attempts at an honest AND sincere apology, it's been accepted, and there is nothing left here for you.
You've grown so much, and it's time to bury the past.
How is life with the hottie girl?
I'm also in your camp of being happy about football. My baseball team svcks horribly (not nearly as much as the owner), and I need something good to look at every weekend. Hockey is another month out too. Plus I do get to watch my D20 and her volleyball team play. You can count on me being plugged in to all her matches when they are streamed. She's in her twilight years, and now a junior, and I want to cherish every moment I have left to watch her play. It's kinda bittersweet.
Wonka, you've got a lot going for you. Surely you have friends who are truly friends that don't have to be the ones to call all the shots? If you were here, I'd definitely be happy to be yours.
Hugs,
Bets
"There are only 2 ways to live your life. One is as though nothing is a miracle. The other is as though everything is a miracle."