Over the hump at last

[wishing, hoping]

I am so sorry. I am hoping things improve in your sitch. I think your XH is so far off the charts he will never find his way back.

Your S15 is correct. Talking to him is a waste of time. It's either your X's way or the highway. I am hopeful that in person your X won't be so angry. It's easy to be horrible on the phone or via email or text. It's not quite so easy in a public place in person. Kudos to you for insisting you meet outside your home.

He sounds very defensive like a wounded animal. I am sure things are not going swimmingly for him. He is probably short on money and I am sure life with his new wife (OW) is not as wonderful as he imagined it would be.

Just continue to be your wonderful self.

WH