You aren't an over poster-I'm a speed reader so occassionally I miss prior posts. Thanks for clarifying. I don't think it's unrealistic or unfathomable to want an all or nothing R with your h. That's not a crazy concept by any stretch.
I'm sure that has been very challenging. Relocating several times, having kids, raising kids, and jobs all take a toll on Rs. I think our culture has created this belief that "you need to have it all!" when in reality, things seemed to go well for my parents and they weren't of that school of thought. I'm sorry you feel overwhelmed. That is a feeling I can relate to very well.
Do something nice for yourself today. Walk, bubble bath, sing in the show, kickboxing, or something of the sort. Live on the edge. Pick 3:)
3 kids BD 12/15/13 (IDKIILY. ) Rope dropped Cirque du Soleil style D final 9-9-14 "Some people are born on 3rd base and go through life thinking they hit a triple." Barry Switzer
