I'd be careful not to over-promise her, Tar. Even if you decide NOW that you never need to know the answer to something, what if you change your mind later?

Bottom line, SHE needs to be reassuring YOU at this point -- IF she is serious about wanting to reconcile.

M57 W 57; D30 D28 S24 S20 GD7 GD2 GD1 GD5m GD1m
BD 5/07; W's affair 5/07-8/07

At the end of every hard-earned day, people gotta find some reason to believe. (Bruce Springsteen)