Hi 2B, I know how hard it is when the MLC is still at home. I'm sorry things haven't improved much. I have noticed something here on the boards...it seems that almost all of the LBS's (both M/F) are (we're) the responsible ones in most areas of the M. We are the ones who payed the bills, took most care of the kids, made sure things got done, planned vacations, etc. Even if we we're the ones making the money, we were the ones making sure the bills got paid on time. Very seldom do you see a MLCer who was in charge of these things. I think it is part of the type of person who goes into MLC. I think they were always being taken care of to a certain extent while the LBS was the "care giver". Just an observation. My W wouldn't ever do these type of things but man if I made a mistake and something didn't get paid she would always be on my case! It's like they are afraid of consequences but don't want the responsibility of actually doing something. Easier to blame their S. Just an observation.
Hang in there 2B. It could be that the PO box is gone and H just didn't contact the company to change the address. The next time you actually get a bill (if ever) make sure to change the address on the bill. H is like a child right now (a destructive one with way too much power) and can't be trusted to do the simple things that any adult should do. I hope things start to get better for you.
