Hey Turn buddy . Im right there with ya on the ring movement > I wish i had the guts that you have . My wife stopped wearing hers and I asked where it was and she said she took it off , ther was no point in wearing it the way things were . I pleaded with her to put it back on . That didnt work . I left mine on for the next two months then one day i decided to take it off and hang it on a neck lace with hers . why ? I dont know .

My point here is that the ring symbolises the vows that we took . She broke the vows so she removed the ring , but we didnt break the vows , should we remove ours ? I removed mine because i thought that if she seen that i was still wearing it she would think that she still has me wrapped around her finger even while she behaves the way she has .

I dont know , Im a mess again today . lololol Dawgy

Me 45 W 45
Son 16 Son 14
Married 23 together 27
W threatened sep several times
W still at home
A discovered Mar 17 2014
A ended DEC 2 ( skeptical )