This advice from 25 brought tears to my eyes. It could have been written to me.
"To be fair, couldn't SHE write almost the same things you have written here about your reactions to her? Seriously. You guys are in some stand off now waiting for the other one to make the first 4-6 moves....which is a killer position in marriages. So many people do that and ask me why THEY must "make the first move(s). to which I reply, "because you are here, (on a marriage saving site) and your spouse is not. You must make the first 1001 move....and maybe the 1002nd too...."
25, you are wise. Pilot, listen. I know I am. We both might be dealing with our own wounded/overgrown egos I think...
