Perhaps he doesn't believe they are lasting? I know that's a big piece of my H's issue. It's great, I'm changing but what will I be like in 6 months? You know?
It might be that.
He also has stated that he feels like he was never in love with me the way he "should have been" because we never had the romantic spark he needs. Maybe I should dye my hair dirty blond. (See the third to last paragraph in my original post.) That seems to be the kind of change he needs. *snort*
Me: 35, H: 37, no kids Together since 2002, Married since 2007 IDKIILY: 2/2013 MC: 5/2013-6/2014 H stated he was REALLY done: 4/2014 I moved out 7/6/14 H filed end of 8/2014 but still hasn't served me