A very merry unbirthday to you!
Makes me want to go on the teacup ride at Disneyland. Of course divorce busting feels a lot like that. Sometimes fast, sometimes slow, forward, backwards, always spinning, going around in big circles...and sometimes it makes you wanna hurl.

I'm sad for where things are w/ your M, but I'm really excited for you and how you're going to face life moving forward.

Me: 34 W:33
T: 10 M: 6
S: 6 D: 5
BD: 5/14
Still together(ish)
Not giving up: 7/14
D talk has slowed, a lot.
Gradually working on things together. Still separate bedrooms.
Slow and Steady wins the race.