I hear you guys. I know there's still a long way to go and plenty of setbacks along the way. I may never get to piecing under the above definition. I'm not sure my W will ever do MC or acknowledge her role in our problems.

Whatever it is, it beats the hell out of where I was.

Me: 34 W:33
T: 10 M: 6
S: 6 D: 5
BD: 5/14
Still together(ish)
Not giving up: 7/14
D talk has slowed, a lot.
Gradually working on things together. Still separate bedrooms.
Slow and Steady wins the race.