You are right Lisa. I just do not know what to do with this deadline looming...do I do nothing, or do I answer the petition and get things rolling? I know the answer, but I dont know the answer...
what possible advantage is there to "get things rolling"? The limbo won't end very much sooner and you'll always wonder if...
Make sure it's not your ego or wounded pride factoring in here....(if you doubt it, then double check b/c of course it's somewhere in there and I see it a bit more than you do, in fact I see it here a lot, mixed in with chronic impatience.
Like I said before, your wife put up with your campaign, your "injured medicated self" (which I think you greatly understate the negative impact of)
for longer than you've been here....think about that, okay?
And when it's your heart and your love and your faith in God and your stated values (which I know this sorely tests) that guide you,
then I think the answer will be clearer.
FWIW, I do NOT believe your wife is "sparing" you your feelings by waiting. That simply makes no sense to me.
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