among other things you said, is that you are the type to "leave no stone unturned"...And for me, you were turning stones over which you knew were Not of the DB approach
and it's not something I'm a big fan of (Not b/c this is the 'Only" way, but just that I figure one approach at a time, which is to be given the full treatment, before switching to another one)....b/c IMO mixing the methods tends to confuse the results and the parties...
ANYHOW, what about you hiring a DB coach? I mean, if you really want to turn every stone over and look, that ought to be pretty high on the list. IF you have one, run this by them.
IF not, why not?
I highly recommend them.
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