This is very very helpful JC, thank you so much for taking the time.

Life is just a blur right now, having to face a lot of changes and make a lot of decisions. And battling fatigue and sorrow. What a ride.

Me:42 W:41
M:12 T:3
D7, D7, S5
Sep#1 Winter 2012 for 4 months
W divorce bomb 6/9/14
Started "in-house separation" 7/2014
W files for D 8/28/14
I move out 9/27/14