Tally-ho...here's the latest email from Ms. Wonka (last response from her was back in July and it contained a cryptic message that said "will be in touch later) ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
Hi Wonka,
I trust that you had a nice Labor weekend. It took me a long time to respond to your email. I have given time to try to understand and I hope this may open more dialogue. I am trying to put this out to discuss and share my thoughts.
OWName is an integral part of my life, I feel that you do not acknowledge me as a person who I chose to be with. Whatever your opinion you have about OWName you can keep it to yourself. I wonder about the level of friendship we have. I am sure you will understand not talking about things that is most important in your life with whom you are trying to strengthen and support can be difficult. I find it as a one-way friendship.
I understand that there may be some issues that may be difficult. Like we mentioned past is past. It is not like that I would share our private stuff. But like hey, you know what, OWName and I went to this fun party....I feel that I cannot mention her name in my conversations. That to me, is not being myself.
The issues of friendship can be of our choosing, and how much we can share. I noticed that all the issues we talk about are focused in the past such as family or football which I noticed is initiated on your part. It is safe topics. I ask myself, what do I want from Wonka?
I just want to know that you are doing things that you enjoy, your humor, what is important to you now? Are you comfortable. What kind of vegetables are you growing?
That stuff...mundane stuff....is what is important to me.
I had not heard from you in a while and of all our birthdays, we always send an email. I did not hear from you. And all of sudden you start sending me emails about football. It is confusing to be quite honest. This is why I said that I would get back to you. I needed to sort things out.
