I appreciate you checking up on me. I'm still hanging in there. I will check out that reference, thank you!
I've stopped posting because of all the conflicting info i was receiving. While some helped, others made it more confusing in my head. I've decided to rely on IC and coaching. Still working on myself and i'm def in a better place.
I changed my username because I was not thinking when I created it--it was just too obvious! I was not careful enough and now all that info is out there. As of now H is in his own room. I revealed what I had learned form the neighbors and he neither confirmed nor denied it but I know better. From the sound of things he is texting back and forth--i'm guessing with the OW. It has been a nightly thing. I hope you are doing well in your personal journey.
I will limit my contact on this site to just PM because it eliminates the public audience. Feel free to reach me there if you're comfortable.
I was not careful enough and now all that info is out there. As of now H is in his own room. I revealed what I had learned form the neighbors and he neither confirmed nor denied it but I know better. From the sound of things he is texting back and forth--i'm guessing with the OW. It has been a nightly thing. I hope you are doing well in your personal journey. 
