My H does/did the same thing. We are more on cordial terms and he has respected me telling him I don't feel comfortable with him coming in the house when I'm not here.
BUT he just walks in like he lives here still when I am here. Still working on this one. I think your replay was fine.
Who knows, maybe his whatever is more of a hurt than a brush off. Time will tell if he listened!
Atsbaby M:36 H:35 T: 19 M:12 S:11 D:9 BD: 5/4/14 Proof of OW 8/13/14-love note from her 8/19 admits OW 8/22/14 files D w/o telling me 9/20/14 Says he wants to reconcile