Gf (to her credit) told her that she could get the money anytime she wanted (by reconciling with me), and that living as a single mom is much harder than W has imagined it is going to be.
Just be careful. You do not want her coming back to you because she feels she cannot make it on her own. For one, she will not love you for it, but rather resent you. Second, she will leave you again as soon as she feels more financially stable.
My W is out on her own for the first time in her life now. I do not think she has a clue how hard it will be to do simple things like pay her rent/utilities/etc all off what is likely to be an entry level job. However, right now she seems to be spending like a drunken sailer, so I have no idea where she got the money unless she did manage to save up a bunch over the summer. Even then, that will run out. Best to just let them be and find out things on their own.
Me: 42 W: 32 Married 7 years together 8.5 S1: 7 S2:7 Bomb #1: 09-16-13 Recon #1: 11/13 A discovered 04-03-2014 W filed D 05-19-14 but never served me I filed D 12-02-2014 S 05-31-14 Divorced 5-19-16
