Thanks everyone for the support....I was starting to feel this was just my journal page wink

Feeling optimistic and cautious about our future.

Mr. Bond,
First of all...welcome back to my thread. I am glad you are here to help me. As far as continuing....she said that. I gave her an open door to get out and did not ask her to stay. As a matter of fact, I told the MC that she asked me if I wanted to really come tonight. She said that she thinks he is great, but we can get counsel from our individual counselors. I mentioned that to MC and said that I wanted to come see him on my own. She then added, after asked what she thought about that...."I have my counselor every other week, and then MC every other week." He gave her an out too....she replied with..."maybe I could come every other session." He again gave her an out and she stuck to it. He then mentions comfort and touch...well, even empathy to her. Weirdly, she was receptive. She said prior to all of this, she was worried it might give the wrong signals.
It was all weird. I cried a little...she teared up. etc.


BTW Mr.Bond...
After our last conversation and reflection....I began surfing the threads and really studying the patterns of do's and dont's in this DB thing. Your signature finally struck a chord with me. Very ying/yang...."the dance"
Thanks for being


Me43/WAW43..M 4y..S1 11/S2 4..Bomb2/2014..Dfile 5/2014..Settlement signed 8/20/14..D final 8/29/14
I moved out 10/10/14..WAW got D she wanted. I wanted R. No waiting,just no boundaries in her way.