Don't put expectations on the time table of your feelings. Things have been rough lately and your perspective is bound to be wacked hard.
The ring thing is hard. I haven't worn mine for a while. It's hard to wear them when it's hot and super dry, my hands feel tight so I took them off about a week before BD and haven't even looked at them. I'm afraid to. In fact, I haven't worn ANYTHING H has given to me. I just can't.