Thanks Pilot,

I'm trying to be strong and consistent. It has been only a week since seeing her for a couple days packing up the house. The interactions this week have been tumultuous to say the least. I am getting the full brunt of her emotions. I have been strong. I have been a good dad, a good person.

And I went completely dark labor day weekend and just was me.

I do like that she has been seeing me get a life, and feels that she isn't getting a life. I do have a coaching session scheduled tomorrow, hopefully I can pick the coaches brain even more.

I keep oscillating back and forth, but maybe I have a shred of hope.. or maybe its all going to hell in a handbasket.. who knows.


Me: 35
Her: 33
D : 16
S : 9
Together: 14 years
Married: 12
She left 4/14/2014
Separated: 5/25/2014
OM Confirmed 7/2014
She filed 8/7/2014
I Filed 10/21/2014
Divorce final 2/12/2015