I'm trying to be strong and consistent. It has been only a week since seeing her for a couple days packing up the house. The interactions this week have been tumultuous to say the least. I am getting the full brunt of her emotions. I have been strong. I have been a good dad, a good person.
And I went completely dark labor day weekend and just was me.
I do like that she has been seeing me get a life, and feels that she isn't getting a life. I do have a coaching session scheduled tomorrow, hopefully I can pick the coaches brain even more.
I keep oscillating back and forth, but maybe I have a shred of hope.. or maybe its all going to hell in a handbasket.. who knows.
Me: 35 Her: 33 D : 16 S : 9 Together: 14 years Married: 12 She left 4/14/2014 Separated: 5/25/2014 OM Confirmed 7/2014 She filed 8/7/2014 I Filed 10/21/2014 Divorce final 2/12/2015