Settlement will be signed soon. Need advice.

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So I get to our marriage counselor tonight and I'm sitting in the waiting room. WAW walks in. I was sitting with the sun in my face reading a magazine and she sat down to seats over. She was chatty and talk to me about some financial things with our divorce. I felt really strong when she asked that I come sit next to her in order to get out of the sunlight. Only be kicked in the teeth when she let me know that her attorney called today and said that our divorce was signed by the judge on Friday. Needless to say I was stunned and remained quiet. Once in therapy we discussed several things. She does want to continue to go seeing this therapist with me however she wants to go once a month because of our schedules and the fact that she already has a therapist. That being said I am now divorced. About 10 minutes into the session I tell him this and he looks at her to discuss with her the fact that she mentioned it to me right before we walked in. She began to tear up because she said she could understand how I was so hurt once again. She stopped wearing her wedding band last week after she went to her therapist so I knew what that meant. 10 minutes into our session when she's explaining it to our therapist that we have been divorced since Friday I secretly slipped my ring off and dropped it in my pocket. I have not taken my ring off other than maybe to take a shower or swim since we've been married. I didn't do it as a jab I did it out of respect for her. She looked over at me as he spoke back to me and look immediately at my hand and did a double take her face was that of surprise and shock.
I feel torn however I made an appointment with the therapist to keep the two every two weeks. So I will go every two weeks and every other appointment she will be there. He said he has never done post divorce marriage counseling however since he works through this with us he would certainly give it a try. This guys got 25 years experience under his belt I have no doubt that he will help us post divorce being "friends" as he did going through this process. The point is she really likes the guy and thinks he is very helpful. After our session ended I told her I was going to get a bite to eat and going to look at a house.