Obviously I'm not at that point yet, and may never be. However, my perspective on it has completely changed. When my BD first broke, I wanted to know all the details, every last thing. Now that more time has passed, I'm more interested in the big picture, and things that will keep me moving forward. The details aren't a game breaker anymore for me. Good luck with whatever you decide. Your getting great advice from lots of people that have been through it.
