Reading your last few posts (2x4 time) looks like you want him to suffer, rub it in his face ... thats all fine and dandy but does that get you where you need to be, ... probably not ... look at your goals, get yourself right ... then decide if you want to let that rope go or hang on and see what happens.
That's basically what my DB coach said, too. "In the long run, does that help you or hurt you? You need to do what's best for yourself in the long run." So yes, I know this, which is why I'm not acting on it. But man, just thinking about it makes me feel a whole lot better. =P
I'm trying to figure out what my goal is for this week, in regards to my own self. That's what my coach asked right before we hung up. I'm still trying to figure that out...but I'm leaning toward working on a schedule for getting my kickboxing certification finally over and done with. I'm hoping you all can hold me accountable!
Me: 35, H: 37, no kids Together since 2002, Married since 2007 IDKIILY: 2/2013 MC: 5/2013-6/2014 H stated he was REALLY done: 4/2014 I moved out 7/6/14 H filed end of 8/2014 but still hasn't served me