Also, KGirl, I have 180d on questioning. I thought I had bc I had cut out what seemed like invasive questioning, but later realized that I needed to cut more out. I was asking questions I viewed as conversational, but it came to my attention that bc of our situation, they probably felt interrogational to him. I still have my need for info satisfied a bit bc our daughter is a lot like me and asks him questions about his day during their nightly goodnight calls. I just respond if he addresses me, now.
Me: 30 Him: 30 Daughter: 5 Son: 3 Daughter: 1 Started dating: 2008 Married: 2010 He moved out: late 7/14