We'll, H just sent a text "Have you used the xxx card lately. Got a message from the fraud dept." This is about the credit card that was on file with internet provider for our business email. It was set for automatic renewal on Aug.31. I received an email from the provider yesterday that the transaction was declined. This is H's card that he doesn't use anymore (the statements still come to my house.) This is just his card, I am not on it. He should know that. I entered a different card in order to pay the bill and had some problems at first, because I forgot that H changed the address for that card to the state he works at. I wonder if he will get another message from that card company too, LOL.

Anyway, here where I would like some advice, as Job promised smile .Do I reply in the same kind of "dry" way? Without addressing him by the name? Or should I be more polite and upbeat? Any thoughts?


M:50
H:52
S28 (my S from previous marriage)
M:17 + 3
BD: 06/12
S: 06/12 - H works in another state