He could be her gay friend who is safe to be around because he's a good listener.
You never really know, so don't jump to conclusions, OK?
---GGG
Me 54 Him 63 M 23 T 29 0 Kids Funny Farm of Rescues 12/12 OW-- 5/13 ILYBINILWY: A denied 9/13 Proof OW: ENDED 2/14 Got D papers on my BD I kicked him out for my sanity 9/14 He wants to "talk"?
Man, I'm sorry to har that rayzzz. It's something I live in fear of.
But what would Iggy Pop do? No, not shoot up. He'd get out and get a life coz he's got a lust for it yeah?
This situation won't last, you'll see. It'll be a short term thing. OK it's hard to take right now, but with all the work you've been doing, you'll make it.
M: 57 / EW: 52 T: 21, M: 8 S: 18, S: 15 Bomb: 1 Jun 14 EA Aug 2014 I think PA Feb 2015 possibly sooner
Me 54 Him 63 M 23 T 29 0 Kids Funny Farm of Rescues 12/12 OW-- 5/13 ILYBINILWY: A denied 9/13 Proof OW: ENDED 2/14 Got D papers on my BD I kicked him out for my sanity 9/14 He wants to "talk"?
Ok thats GGG and Caliguy!! Deep breaths. I wanna go on a Bruce Wayne tear now...Brucie really had to play up his playboy status (I rock at these subtle play on words) with songs and babes....but you are right. Tit for tat wont help anyone....GGG where are you kareoking tonight? I'll max the visa on booze for us...we will sing Grease Songs..."summer loving.." *sigh* I am cramming the STFU bottle down my throat and it is strong stuff. super ugh. Glad the cool people are in this S-club. I am going bat_sH^t. meditate...wait ...my dear db friends I will be on here frequently ...thanks for the pep talk/ 2x4 slap and a hand to hold...I wanna play some really mean death metal ukulele songs....but ukulele.."everything sounds happier on ukulele" ..it would never work. I am dropping out of warp and completely gutted. but thats ok....you guys made it and found some love for your spouse....mine is just buried right now under the frackin planet known as "betrayal" super ugh. Time for a super GAL. maybe take a few days off work. appreciate you guys for holding me up.
Me 42 W:35 M: 14yrs T:15yrs D: 8yrs D:6yrs S:3yrs BD: "I want a D"09/03/14 Sep: 30/06/14
Don't give up when you still have something to give. Nothing is really over until the moment you stop trying.
I'll take you up on your drinks. I'll have a Mint Julep. Extra Tall. Extra Bourbon!
---GGG
Me 54 Him 63 M 23 T 29 0 Kids Funny Farm of Rescues 12/12 OW-- 5/13 ILYBINILWY: A denied 9/13 Proof OW: ENDED 2/14 Got D papers on my BD I kicked him out for my sanity 9/14 He wants to "talk"?
Thanks...I like Iggy so yeah it hurts like someone blew off both hands and feet but I will keep working on myself. And hope you are right.
GGG you are right no mind reading....it is either EA/PA but don't want to dig in to find out...STFU and see when this discloses itself. I would rather have more gay friends...we do have some
Me 42 W:35 M: 14yrs T:15yrs D: 8yrs D:6yrs S:3yrs BD: "I want a D"09/03/14 Sep: 30/06/14
Don't give up when you still have something to give. Nothing is really over until the moment you stop trying.
Thanks LisaB! Soooo this personal change thing is really being retooled in light of this. Part of the "goal making" in DB that she would "look me in the eyes more" and "be more relaxed and smile" have kindof gone down in flames. I know now even more than ever that this change is for me and all you vets keep droning on and on about it **its all about you...pretend she isn't in the picture...only you can make yourself happy** sigh. *facepalm* of course you are right but now I feel like I have hit the "wall" like in a marathon and am burning up the bat reserves...do I need "bat cocaine" to speed me up? lmao No I realize I am in shock by the dizzying amount of time I am spending watching youtube music videos: Damion Rice "Rootless Tree: classic F word lines are cathartic. WAW...*facepalm* again...I am writing out the word detach about fifty times now... Well I am going to meet up with some new friends for a coffee GAL, yeah I know "Thats lame Batman" but I'll ramp it up later. ugh. **strapping on the cape and dragging his arse top the batcycle ..its a Harley of course with dumb_arsa bat wings the size of tentpoles**....;D
Me 42 W:35 M: 14yrs T:15yrs D: 8yrs D:6yrs S:3yrs BD: "I want a D"09/03/14 Sep: 30/06/14
Don't give up when you still have something to give. Nothing is really over until the moment you stop trying.
Me 54 Him 63 M 23 T 29 0 Kids Funny Farm of Rescues 12/12 OW-- 5/13 ILYBINILWY: A denied 9/13 Proof OW: ENDED 2/14 Got D papers on my BD I kicked him out for my sanity 9/14 He wants to "talk"?
Did you get lost in the dark recesses of the Bat Cave?
Do we need to call Robin?
Or maybe Alfred? He might be smarter. (Robin never struck me as a Mega-Brain or anything.)
Come out and play with us!!!!
I hope for your sake you are not stuck in "OM Funk-Land". But if you are, you REALLY SHOULD make an appearance. You can't do that alone.
I am shining the BAT LIGHT on the night sky!!!
Calling Batman!!!
---GGG
Me 54 Him 63 M 23 T 29 0 Kids Funny Farm of Rescues 12/12 OW-- 5/13 ILYBINILWY: A denied 9/13 Proof OW: ENDED 2/14 Got D papers on my BD I kicked him out for my sanity 9/14 He wants to "talk"?