Thanks for all the support folks. I really need it today.
Taking on Joe's challenge to find three things to affirm of H's (but only have to give one compliment). I ROCKED the CHIT out that that just now!
First of all, he walked in with a red velvet cupcake for ME! He'd picked up a few for D7 since she's at his house for a couple nights but he brought me one, too! So nice! I thanked him profusely but I'm trying HARD not to over think it. He loves people through food so I see the gesture and it fills my heart.
Secondly, I he got a hair cut and a shave (he has to get pro shaves because his skin is too sensitive so he gets a shave every 6-8 weeks or so) and I told him it looked amazing (it totally does). I think he was shocked by my compliment.
He said he went to Sephora (before BD he asked me if I had a good moisturizer he could use because his skin was feeling SO dry. I recommended a couple) and picked up another bottle of his moisturizer and said he had the points put on my Sephora account. I feel like that was another gift. He has always been generous that way. I told him that his skin was looking really good, a lot less dry and that I was glad he liked that moisturizer.
I also took the time to really gush about how amazing it is to see him with D7 and how much fun she has with him. How her face lights up when he's around and how he's the only one who can make her giggle that atomic giggle that we love so much.
My heart is just overflowing with joy to send out these compliments and affirmations. Practice, right?