OK, pop quiz time. Preparation: my previous post regarding limited amount of contact in last 3 months.

1. I'm off to Tanzania for a week next week (for work). Do I:

A) Send a courtesy email to let him know I am away and hope he's doing well.

B) Not tell H. My international travel was a bit controversial in our R in any case (ironically because it was time away from my H and he didn't do well with that. I guess he was also worried).

C) Send a courtesy email to let him know I am away and let him know that he's welcome to stop by and pick up a box of things I have packed up for him in preparation for my move in a couple of weeks (He already know's I am moving though I've not told him the exact date. This would be a bit of a 180 because early on I said I wanted to be at the house when he was dropping by to pick up his things).

D) Other. Explain: ______________________________

Last edited by ganb8te; 09/02/14 10:02 PM.

H 37 Me 36
Together 15 years
Married 5 years
No kids
BD Apr 2014
H moved out 2 Jun 2014