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I can't help but wonder what his motive and thinking is. Not that it matters but I don't get it.


And you never will.

Mostly likely he is doing just what you suspect. Wanting to check in on you from time to time. The 10 minutes before could be anything. It could be because he JUST thought of you and it is a spur of the moment type thing. It could be his 'excuse' of 'oh, I was nearby can I pop in to get something'. It could be a million things. Even if it is something else, take it for what it is. An opportunity for him to see you shine without him.

As I said before, you have a really strong tool in your toolbox. And that is you are an attractive fun woman and he is, well, a guy.

Good luck!


Me: 42
W: 32
Married 7 years together 8.5
S1: 7 S2:7
Bomb #1: 09-16-13
Recon #1: 11/13
A discovered 04-03-2014
W filed D 05-19-14 but never served me
I filed D 12-02-2014
S 05-31-14
Divorced 5-19-16