Been there, done that lol. Voldy is a specialist at making me feel like a crappy father. Unless I'm in full panic mode about the kids at all times then I'm not fulfilling my parental role. There's Voldy's way... and that about covers it. I know how easy it is to get sucked into that big black hole lol. Good that you caught yourself falling into the old pattern. They'll milk it till it doesn't work anymore.
