Here goes .
Several months ago I suspected my partner of having an affair and in the end I was proved right .
When I had proof she just left .
Leaving me with my S18 and D12 .
Spoken a few times and heard all the usual she wasn't happy for years and doesn't love me etc.
she said she needed space to sort her head out but spent first week at her sisters flat seeing the OM most days .
Me and the kids would see them together a few times and this would cause a lot of pain and upset to us.
Fast forward a few more weeks and she is back home on a 2 week trial after breaking down and crying and telling me how much she missed the kids and that she realised she can't survive on her wages .
Am I a complete fool for letting her have the trial ?


Me 40
W 37
Together 22 years
S18
D12
WaW 12/08/14 after affair exposed , suspected for several months
W returned home for 2 weeks to see if can handle family life
After the 2 weeks she has left .