Question: Is it worth leaving off my ring knowing that D11 will likely notice and report it to H?
If he asked I would say "I am tired and needed a break. I took it off as a way of taking some anxiety off my plate. If you need to take yours off too I will understand."
Not that I think he will ask.
Me42, H40 D12, S8, S7 A revealed: 7/13 Sep 4/14; Agreed to D 1/15