Sounds like you had a great trip. Sorry your H had to ruin your coming home. He does sound really detached at the moment. And I know how you must feel like throwing in the towel if even your DB coach is not optimistic. All I can say is keep doing everything you can for yourself and to make yourself a better person.

Hang in there Jacket!

Me: 42
W: 32
Married 7 years together 8.5
S1: 7 S2:7
Bomb #1: 09-16-13
Recon #1: 11/13
A discovered 04-03-2014
W filed D 05-19-14 but never served me
I filed D 12-02-2014
S 05-31-14
Divorced 5-19-16